Ever since we're kids we're told to do this and not do that. To go to bed early, to finish the food on our plate, to not jump up and down, to not shout, to not fight. Even as we get older people are constantly telling us what to study, which university to go to (or not go to) and even which person we can and can't marry (he/she's just not good enough for you). Of course then there's the work place, where our boss and their boss is constantly telling us what to do, when to turn up, when to go home, when we can eat, what to spend 90% of our day doing. It's all pretty ridiculous if you think about it. We get caught up in a way of living where our decisions are made for us, and our daily routine is imposed on us.
With this being the typical person's life in a typical western industrialised nation. Is it any wonder that we're shit at making decisions? We never get to make any, we never get to practice this fine art. Look around you, look at your company, all the bureaucracy is there because no one has the ability to make decisions. Is it down to a lack of balls? Maybe. But I think it's more to do with the fact that we never get to practice making choices in our life, from when we're kids to our transitionary years in higher education to the workplace. Heck you even see this decision-paralysis in the dating world (where do you want to go to eat tonight honey? What movie do you want to watch? etc). Decision-paralysis is all around us. So how do we combat it? I think the best way is to start making direct, unambiguous decisions. Start with small ones every single day and get on to the bigger ones. Sure you make screw up, but atleast you know it was your choice.
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